Through the eyes of our nurses
We are grateful for all who love and serve during this season of COVID-19. Our blog this week includes reflections from some of the nurses in our Lord of Life community, including Kathy Calihan, Cindy Clay, Susan Clem, Katie Herdzik, Stephanie Keane, Marlene Kirkpatrick, and Becky Mastalerz.
You are encouraged to share this blog on your social media so that people can hear how faith has helped front line workers endure. Send our nurses a word of encouragement: post or comment using the hashtag, #LordofLifeNurses. Let's show them some love!
I have spent most of my nursing career in Pediatric Oncology, with the transition into Care Management for this specialty in the fall. As you can imagine, this is a very difficult field emotionally and mentally, with my faith being frequently tested and challenged. I have to put my trust in God and his plan. I also cling to the success stories and the kids and adults who have gone on to live great lives and are doing well post-treatment.
Sunday services at Lord of Life have always left me feeling rejuvenated and ready to take on the next week. I especially like to light candles for those who have passed on or are very ill. It is one of the things I miss the most right now from church.
Our church has made me feel supported during this difficult time. Some things have been small, such as a handwritten card or mentioning of healthcare staff during service. The biggest impact has been connecting with some of the nurses from LOL through a group chat. Through this, we have been able to talk and express feelings, frustrations, and offer supportive encouragement and words of wisdom, as we all have different nursing backgrounds and experiences. As a new member, it is nice to meet (virtually) with new people and feel more connected to the church. I am looking forward to meeting these wonderful women in person someday.
The support of Lord of Life during this pandemic has been incredible. When the COVID-19 pandemic really started to become severe, I received a text from Pastor Lowell telling us that my mom and I, along with all healthcare workers, were in his prayers and to stay safe.
When I returned from vacation in mid-March, it was to the news that my unit at work was going to be part of the COVID-19 ICU. Policies and guidelines were rapidly changing in order to provide the safest care and to keep patients and staff safe, including guidelines that patient families were unable to visit except in extreme situations.
I kept thinking of Psalm 23: “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” God has been with me and guiding me. I have been able to provide comfort and support to patients and their families who are suffering loss. I recall a family member of a patient telling me, “You and your coworkers are in our prayers. Thank you so much for caring for my loved one.”
I have been very grateful for the Facebook Live services and social media, which allow me to participate in services despite working. I was also able to share Easter Sunday services with a friend who would not have been able to participate otherwise.
The cards, calls, and texts from Lord of Life have meant the world to me and helped me know that I have the support of the church and faith behind me, while going to work during one of the hardest times I’ve ever experienced. I cannot express how grateful I am for this support.
Having been a nurse in hospice, ICU, ER, and home care for the last 45 years, I have relied on my faith in God to carry me through the hard times. This has been true in times of death, birth, sickness, and things that happen that are just not fair.
Lord of Life has been a place I can and have gone to in community to find the Spirit of God, as we each walk our daily lives as Christians. The support and fellowship experienced here are where our batteries are recharged for yet another day of life, being affirmed that life can be hard, but also being affirmed that God is so very good. Community is so important to my life. Through it, I am able to continue my walk with God and to also support others while still here to carry out our mission together.
As nurses, we need a strong faith to let God's love shine through us in all that we do, so those who are in need may feel the loving Spirit, hear His voice, and be receptive to our comfort measures. I feel that nursing is not a job, but a calling. My faith always keeps me strong. Praying and reading the Scriptures helps keep my faith grounded. As nurses, we tend to run on empty and need our faith refueled and restored. The loving support of the people at Lord of Life does this for us, so we can live, share, and celebrate with all people, God's love in Jesus Christ while caring for others.
I received a picture of the Army tents outside our hospital while I was on vacation, showing that our unit was now the COVID unit, followed by a phone call from our chief nurse telling me to return from vacation immediately. I knew this was going to be something like we have never experienced before. If it wasn’t for my faith in Jesus, I would not be able to step through the doors of our COVID unit. Knowing that he protects us is what gives me strength.
One of the hardest things during this COVID crisis is being with a patient who is dying without family at the bedside and they say their last goodbyes over the phone. It is truly heart-wrenching. The patient’s wife called later and thanked us for being with him and reminded the nursing staff that this was not goodbye, it was “I will see you later.”
I also want to thank everyone for making it possible to watch services online. It has been wonderful. They are even being watched on breaks during the night with other medical staff. This has reminded all of us we are in this together. The plastic headbands to keep the face mask elastic off the back of the ears are great, too.
I’ve been an RN since 1988, and at that time, mostly practicing in the area of outpatient surgery. After some time away, I accepted a position in psychiatric nursing, only expecting to work in that area until I found another position in surgery. However, I believe God had other plans for me. I have now been working in behavioral medicine for nearly eight years and love it! I can’t imagine working anywhere else. I feel God’s presence every day I’m at work, guiding me to say just the right thing or encouraging my patients and their families, especially on the busy days when there is one admission after another. It’s then, that God says to slow down and truly listen. It’s usually those times when I realize He has me right where he needs me, to hold a hand or offer sincere encouragement that things will get better.
Lord of Life has given me the opportunity to help start a monthly support group at church, called HOPE, that supports and encourages families and friends of those who suffer with mental health issues. I feel blessed and supported at LOL and hope to pass those blessings on to my patients and coworkers in any way that God needs me.
As I am nearing retirement age, people always ask me when am I retiring. I tell them when I don’t have the strength to get out of bed. I love being a nurse, but in recent weeks my strength seems to be fading. Not my physical strength, but my mental strength. I have left the hospital so mentally drained that I go home and fall into bed and do not even eat.
It has been good to connect with other nurses in the church through a group text. I can, and have, texted this group at all hours of the day and they have given me encouraging words to give me the strength to go to work the next day.
I was reading my Bible the other day and I just randomly opened it to Isaiah and read these words: “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.” Why this passage and at this time? I think the good Lord was reaching out to me to carry on.
A thriving church is one so convinced of the resurrection that we’re free to give our lives in service to others. Presiding Bishop Elizabeth Eaton shares how the ELCA continues to thrive in country churches, cityscapes and places with no walls in this message for 2020 Synod Assemblies. This video was recorded prior to the COVID-19 outbreak and restrictions.
For many years, every time our family went anywhere in the car, one of the kiddos would ask, “Are we there, yet?” It didn’t matter if we were just zipping to the grocery store or making the 14-hour pilgrimage from Wichita to Cincinnati for Thanksgiving Weekend, they needed to know if we had arrived, and if not, how long would it be until we did?
We’re all asking the same questions as the stay-at-home order extends into May. “Are we there, yet? Is Ohio lifting the shelter-in-place order? When we will be able to gather again as a church community in our worship space?” After weeks of isolation, we are all eager to be together in person again.
As I mentioned in our latest Lifeline newsletter, ministry leaders from around the Southern Ohio Synod met remotely with Bishop Suzanne Dillahunt and her staff last week to hear about strategies and best practices for the weeks and months ahead. It was time well spent and we had loads of questions about what worship, pastoral care, Vacation Bible School, and the many other learning and serving moments that are at the center of our lives together in ministry will look like on the other side of COVID-19.
When we asked if we can resume worship, our Bishop said, “Not yet. Hold tight. We’ve seen how faith communities not following restrictions have had disastrous occurrences. Ohio is still on stay-at-home order, so we will use this time to make plans for when we’ll be back together.”
While we wait, we are diligently planning. Our goal is to develop a strategy that will protect each other when we can gather again. We are fortunate that one of our members, Liz Zimmerly, MSN, RN-BC, works in the field of health and safety, and has volunteered to share her expertise. During these weeks, she is meeting with staff, church council, and Ministry Area Coordinators (MACs), creating goals in phases.
As we create safe re-opening schedules and mitigation strategies, we are considering the vulnerable among us. Our plans must be local and contextual. When we have a plan, we’ll organize implementation and communicate it with all of you.
During this time, we also have a team who is reaching out to work with anyone who is currently unable to access worship online. Is this you? If so, please be in touch with Cara (
Next week, we’ll be releasing a “Frequently Asked Questions” (FAQs) page on our website, which will address many of the questions we’re all asking, including:
When will we open our building and grounds for worship, outreach, and fellowship? As soon as possible. When we do open, we will be confident that we are doing everything possible to keep everyone healthy.
Bishop Dillahunt, in closing, said, “Even though we are stepping into the unknown, we can do this! It is important for us to be innovators during this season and focus on our mission.” She read, Isaiah 43:18-19 and declared, “God is doing new things in us and through us!”
If you have specific questions or concerns, or want to be part of the planning team, contact the church office.
Thank you for your patience and support as we move forward together as a community. God continues to use us to live, share, and celebrate with all.
In faith and hope,
Pastor Lowell
I know I’m not the only person who has done it. Mine might not be the worst I’ve seen. It’s definitely not the best. Once it hit 75 degrees outside I really needed to get some of the extra hair off my head and I pulled out the clippers and … well … since my goal was to cool off a bit as it got warmer, I’ll consider it a success. If I weren’t being physically distant from people and wanted to look good in public, that might be another story. This is the nature of the CoronaCut (n. - short for “coronavirus haircut.” A haircut done at home by someone in your household or yourself because barbers, salons, etc. are closed during the stay at home order).
This is one of just a few adjustments many of us are making. This one happened to have a comical outcome (some people might consider it tragic, but I really don’t care much about my hair.) It is of the same order as CoronaGut (the widening of my waistline because of excessive snacking at home) and CoronaTime (the nebulousness caused by the lack of regular daily routine, and the reason this blog is coming out on Friday instead of Thursday).
Other adjustments have really altered the way we work and live. The one that has made the biggest impact on my day to day life is how we put together worship each week. I’ve spent my whole career talking about how important it is to sing together during worship. Not just for the choir or the band to sing together, but for the whole congregation. There is a visceral feeling we get from singing with a group of people, and it is difficult to replace virtually.
As part of our liturgy, the music is meant to be one of the things that brings our hearts and minds together in worship, using our full bodies and breath to sing the same words from our cores. And not everybody is as comfortable breaking into song in the middle of their living room as I am. For the last few weeks, instead of trying to exactly replace the singing, I’ve been trying to use special offerings along with hymns and songs we know really well to bring us together. I know it isn’t the same as feeling the rumble in your chest when you are singing along with people next to you and you have great leadership from the singers at the front of the room. But I know our hearts and minds are together because we’ve made such a great effort to put our worship together and you all have taken the time to worship with us from home. It is so nice when it is all finished to go through and look at the live comments to see how everyone has interacted with each other while worship is streaming.
We’ll keep making adjustments. Each week I learn some new bit of technology trying to figure out what is going to work best for our worship and workflow. Sometimes it is great. Sometimes I learn that a half second transition in a video ends up taking an extra hour and a half for the computer to process. *cough* Easter Sunday *cough*. Some folks have stepped forward to share their musical gifts, which makes it easier for me to spend time on other parts of worship. I love that innovation is coming out of a difficult situation and that we have opportunities to grow together and as individuals.
But I can’t wait to be together again. I miss everyone and I miss singing together and even though I’m an introvert who is happy to be home most of the time, I miss getting to chat with you before and after worship. And also, I miss having a professional cut my hair. Hopefully someone can fix it before we see each other in person again.
Disheveledly yours,
John Johns
I don’t know about you, but I am kind of tired of talking about the coronavirus. I’m tired of hearing about it on the news. I am tired of seeing so many posts about it on Facebook. I am tired of all the pain and grief that it is causing. Not that I want to put my head in the sand, or ignore the reality going on around us, but I want to take a little break and talk about something different.
Every night at dinner our family shares our “highs and lows” from the day. Sometimes by the end of our day all we can end up thinking about is how long we spent cooped up in our house and how many arguments we had over chores and screen time. It can sometimes feel like there weren’t any “highs” during our day because of the overwhelming feeling of confinement that pervades our day. If all we focused on was the doom and gloom, there would be no way that we would all make it through the sheltering in place order without mentally breaking down.
As a way to change our viewpoints, since Easter, my family has been trying to find ways to look for little bits of gratitude throughout the day. Our kids have been filling out “The 3 Minute Gratitude Journal for Kids” each evening. It asks them to list three things they are thankful for, the person that brought them joy that day, their overall feeling for the day, and the best part of their day. It has been interesting to watch them fill it out because they will start out with a “blah” feeling for the day, but after listing all of the best parts of their day, they will go back and change their feeling for the day to something upbeat. There are plenty of options online for journals that encourage gratitude, happiness, mindfulness, and so much more, that I encourage you to explore.
Searching for moments of gratitude is not a new concept. Usually, every November you will see people on social media participating in the #ThankfulnessChallenge, where you post something you are thankful for each day of the month. But in a time when so much negativity is pressing down on us, I think it is vital for us to look for at least one thing that brought us joy, or that we are thankful for, from that particular day. You can find the way that works best for you: maybe it's a journal, maybe you put slips of paper in a jar, maybe you post online. If you choose to join me in this daily practice, let us also lift these moments of gratitude to God in prayer. We trust that our God is God of love and is working to make moments of creation, restoration, peace, love, acceptance, healing, and awe happen in our lives. Let us give thanks to the Lord our God!
Psalm 23:1-3 - (The Message Bible)
Come, let’s shout praises to God,
raise the roof for the Rock who saved us!
Let’s march into his presence singing praises,
lifting the rafters with our hymns!
And why? Because God is the best!
Thankful for each and every one of you,
Pastor Corey
In all my years of ministry, I’ve never experienced a Holy Week and Easter like these past few weeks. I would imagine it was a first for you, too.
There were no waving palms as we walked into the sanctuary together, because we weren’t there. There was no foot washing, no stripping of the altar on Maundy Thursday. We couldn’t hear the collective sorrow in the worship space as we sang “Were you there when they crucified my Lord?” together and then left in silence. There were no glowing faces as we huddled around the firepit at the opening words of the Easter Vigil. There were no flowing streamers above our heads as we sang, “Jesus Christ is Risen, Today. Alleluia!” on Easter morning.
But that doesn’t mean that those holy moments and the promises of an empty tomb on Easter didn’t arrive right on time! From your couches and chairs. We declared, “Alleluia! Christ is risen! He is risen indeed! Alleluia!” In front of our screens, we shared a meal together and heard the ancient bidding prayers. In the silence of our homes and hearts, we remember that Jesus said, “It is finished,” and gave up his spirit.
Thank you for your incomparable flexibility during these days of quarantine. Almost at a moment’s notice, you embraced our new patterns of being connected as we “live, share, and celebrate” the love of Christ in our midst.
Without any warning, we shifted into “nimble mode.” Nimble is defined as “quick and light in movement or action; agile; (of the mind) quick to comprehend.”
Church congregations of our size (220+ households) are not usually described as nimble, but in this season, our ability to move quickly to a virtual worship and learning environment has helped us maintain the warm hospitality that is a signature of Lord of Life.
As you know, none of this just happened naturally. We owe deep gratitude to so many who made this new way of being happen, including:
John Johns who not only is coordinating and arranging musicians from the piano bench of his home, but he has also ramped up his tech and production skills to rival a Sports Center remote production crew.
Cara Hasselbeck who continues to keep us on track with ministry schedules and deadlines, while also breathing life to a Lifeline Newsletter from a distance and plowing through our ministry software upgrade from her home.
Pastor Corey Wagonfield has been a flurry of organizing and coordinating behind the scenes, while also providing exceptional pastoral care and leadership in worship, learning, and moments. All of this while wrapping up his seminary career and preparing for a first call.
Donna Harvey and Tyler Keith continue to work tirelessly to keep us fiscally responsible, not only receiving your generous offerings, but also paying our bills and making sure that our ministry partners receive our support.
And a word of appreciation to the multitude of musicians, readers, Sunday morning teachers and Bible study leaders, letter writers, phone callers, Stephen Ministers, preschool teachers, lawn mowers, and so many others who continue to serve and offer words of encouragement and assurance in this uncertain season. Thank you!
Thank you to each of you for your kindness to one another and for your acts of service that build an atmosphere of hope in a time of anxiety. Thank you for your financial support that sustains our ministries and for your countless prayers which tether us in faith.
We don’t know when we’ll step back into our building for worship. We don’t know when we’ll share bread and wine in front of the altar. We don't know when we’ll tell stories, while sipping coffee or tea. We don’t know when our children will race down the halls to get to a learning moment and hear about Jesus.
But, what we do know is that we are the Body of Christ, bound together by the Spirit of God, and called to love and serve – wherever and however that may be!
Alleluia! Christ is risen!
Pastor Lowell
Each of us comes at life with our own perspective and sees things differently.
A nurse. A teacher. A Stephen Minister.
Call it a distinct view or an alternate vantage point, this is one of the great joys of doing life together! Our collective story is enhanced by what others bring to it.
As one of the leaders of this congregation, sometimes I wonder if I get a first-hand view of ministry that some of you miss out on. Whew! Let me share. What a couple of days we’ve had!
Each day brings new declarations and restrictions as the pandemic moves deeper into our neighborhoods and lives, but that can’t stop the ways that God is using us to plant seeds of faith, hope, and love. Here are a few of the beautiful moments I’ve experienced this week. (I invite you to share any that you’ve seen or been part of on our social media sites).
Some of the Lord of Life nurses have a group chat to encourage and support one another. One of them recently found out that she was being moved into training to care for COVID-19 patients. “I am afraid,” she wrote. Instantly, the nurse texts exploded with prayers, strategies for health, emojis, and words of encouragement. It was beautiful to watch their love and concern embrace their sister.
One of the Lord of Life Preschool teachers, after hearing that class – and her pay – would be ending March 31, wrote to the board president, “[I’ll] be able to continue to post videos and I will do so as I am able. I will complete my end of year videos for all 4 classes and have their end of the year books available for pickup when circumstances allow. [I will also] make a "graduation" video for the kids sometime on or before original last day of school… I appreciate all that you do!”
One of our Stephen Ministers had an idea: For those who are able to do so, what if we used a portion of the upcoming stimulus check to buy groceries for a local food bank? “I think the food banks are going to be hit really hard for weeks or months to come and I feel this is a way to help.”
Pastor Bob Browning, serving St. Matthew’s Lutheran in Darrtown, called to say that he is very appreciative of our online worship services. He is going to encourage St. Matthew's to log into our feed each week, rather than trying to do one of his own. (I should also mention that Pastor Lucas McSurley, our former intern, has shared our Sunday morning livestream link with his congregation, Messiah Lutheran in Akron, so he can dedicate his energies to pastoral care and other ministries.)
You might feel like ministry is on hold or suspended, since we’re not in the building, or that somehow God’s mission has been derailed, this spring. Nothing could be further from the truth. God’s Spirit is continuing to lead us into living out our mission to live, share, and celebrate God’s love with all people. Who could’ve imagined the generosity that would come from these days of isolation?
As we enter this Holy Week and journey with Jesus through the gates of Jerusalem to the upper room and then follow him to the hill where he will lay down his life for us, hear the Truth of God’s love, once again: “The Light shines in the darkness and the darkness has not overcome it.”
During this unprecedented era in our lifetimes, there will be grim moments. But Jesus Christ goes with us. He is our light, our hope, our peace.
Thanks be to God!
Pastor Lowell
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