We’ve celebrated a Blue Christmas service here each year since I’ve been at Lord of Life, and it is one of my favorite worship moments of the liturgical year. Even though it has become a mainstay on our calendar, it is worth diving into why we celebrate this holy night.
Outwardly, Christmas is a joyous time full of carols and lights and bright decorations. Often loud families get together to eat, share stories, play games, and celebrate their time together. Friends have “Friendmas” parties. Colleagues have work holiday parties. There is a rush at the mall and online as everyone stresses to get their gifts purchased by the time they are celebrating Christmas with whatever group they are going to see next.
For some people, it is all too much.
The longer nights take their toll on some people’s mental health, and others struggle with depression year round. Some people find holidays difficult because it reminds them of family members or friends who aren’t there to celebrate with them anymore. Some people just need a moment in this chaotic season to breathe.
Blue Christmas is a quiet moment during a season that can otherwise be noisy. It is a chance to celebrate Christmas on your own terms, without the drummer boy banging in your ear or having to smile through worship with 200 of your closest friends. It is a moment to sit with all the heavy feelings that come up around Christmas when everyone expects you to feel light.
Sometimes that moment of quiet is the breath we need to get through the rest of the season.
If you could use a break, join us this Sunday, December 18, at 6:30 pm for Blue Christmas.
Yours in the quiet,
John